Samina Hadi-Tabassum
In the living room
My uncles and father stand in a huddled mass
Shaking their heads in unison to mean yes
To the egregious tales told from home
Of corrupt prime ministers and bribery scandals
In the kitchen
My aunts and mother sit around the table
Warming the aluminum foil covered dishes
Hands cusped around cups of chai
Admiring the gold jewelry around their necks
We adolescent girls listen surreptitiously to their banter
Straddling the hallway between gendered spaces
Heads cringed to hear words of arranged marriages and horoscopes
Of young men finishing medical school and engineering degrees
The cost of dowries, banquet halls, and the groom’s horse
Of tents, lights and plane tickets back home
With worried looks and fearful faces
Talk turns to artificial jewelry, plastic garlands and less embroidery
To no-good relatives who should never be invited
And politicians causing inflation
Of middle class boys with their own shops and stores
Who would pay anything for an American bride
Samina Hadi-Tabassum is a professor at Dominican University outside of Chicago. She teaches courses in language development and linguistics.
She has published poetry in the Journal of Postcolonial Writing, Eastlit, Soul Lit, and Indus Streams.
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